1.希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，即使被切断，但它们还会再长出来。

1.Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.

2.宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。

2.To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.

3.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

3. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

4.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

4. Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

5.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。

5. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

6.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

6.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

7.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。

7.Love makes man grow up or sink down.

8.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

8. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

9.许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。

9.Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken.

10．我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

10. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

11．一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

11. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

12．人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。

12.During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.

13．生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。

13. To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?

14．你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。

14.Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness.

15．我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。

15. I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others.

16．爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。

16.If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness.

17．你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。

17.The more you want to know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget.

18．暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。

18.To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly.

19．女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。

19.The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls.

20．只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！

20. I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance.

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。

21. I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you.

22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。

22. When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you.

23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。

23. How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises.

24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

24. When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

25. What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.

26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。

26. People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love.

27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟

27. The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread.

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

28. Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future.

29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。

29. Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing.

30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。

30. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。

31. When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself.

32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。

32. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally.

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫做恋爱。

33. The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other.

34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。

34. The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers.

35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

35. When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you.

36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。

36. The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside.

37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。

37.We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father.

38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

38.If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。

39.It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability.

40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。

40. Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone.

41．在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？

41. It’s not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had.

42．如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。

42.If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily for the sake of scenery not for you.

43．千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。

43. Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash.

44．我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。

44. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.

45．当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。

45. When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time.

46．我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。

46.I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind.

47．所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。

47. All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me.

48．曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。

48. Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then your love will last longer.

49．我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。

49.I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story.

50．幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。

50. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.

51．在我们生命中出现的人，一些给我们上课，一些让我们痊愈，有的用来分担分享，有的用来真爱。

51.Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love.

52．与其等到别人来爱你，不如自己学着努力多爱自己一些，如果今天的你没有比昨天更喜欢自己，那明天对你来说又有什么意义呢？

52. It’s better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today you don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow?

53．你可以用自己不喜欢的方式赚到财富，也可以用自己不相信的药治好疾病，但你无法从自己不爱的人身上获得幸福。

53.You can make fortune by ways that you don't like, and can get cured by medicine that you don't believe, but you can never feel happy from someone you don't love.

54．有一个人让我觉得很安心，所以想要依靠他，而另一个人让我觉得很孤单，所以想要拥抱他。

54.Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.

55．一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。

55. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

56．所谓的自由，就是自己活着的理由，如果轻易放弃生命，那么在哪里都找不到自由的。

56. The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If you easily give up life, then you can never find freedom.

57．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

57.When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.

58．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。

58. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

59．一个有着优美背影的女人的最佳动作是背身离去——回忆就是这样一种女人。

59. The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.

60．在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。

60.In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.

61．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

61.If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.

62．有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道 ，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。

62. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.

63．我总是，追赶，那些黑色的潮水断处的山崖，却忘记了命轮里，一季一季俏俏开放，又悄悄枯萎的，没有来路的葵花。

63.I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.

64．爱情不是存在于我住的地方，而是存在于我爱的地方。爱情是用全世界所有的名言都无法解释的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙却不能了解女人，因为男人缺乏那种脑细胞。

64. Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.

65．人们说，找到了什么样的人就有了什么样的生活，于是不同的选择，就有不同的童话结尾。

65 It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.

66．在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。

66. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

67．我知道感情不能拿来比较，但无意中还是习惯用他拥有的来抱怨他所缺少的。

67. I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.

68．每个女孩都曾经是一个无泪的天使，当她遇上心爱的男孩时便有了泪，天使落泪，坠落凡间，所以每一个男孩都不能辜负他的女孩，因为她曾经为了你，放弃了整个天堂。

68. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy.

69．暗恋是不需要对象的，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正在爱着别人。

69. You don't need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we are falling love with someone.

70．不是我们去选择际遇，而是际遇选择我们。当际遇来到，我们能够做的，只是接受这个挑战。不要说机会从来没有出现，它曾经出现过，只是你舍不得放下自己拥有的东西。

70. It's not us to choose the opportunity, but it's opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don't say that opportunities never come. It came but you just don't willing to give up the things you own.

71．男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

71. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

72．温暖是奢侈的东西，奢侈到需要用很深的寒冷和疼痛才能体现。

72.Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt.

73．好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

73.Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

74．真爱，不是因为你能带给我什么而爱你，而是因为爱你而准备接受你所带来的一切。真爱就是不指望你让我能在人前夸耀，但在我的内心深处有这样的把握：即使所有的人不与我为伍，你也会依然站在我身边。

74. I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side.

75．真正的女性是毅然抛弃所谓女性气质，却依然美丽的人；真正的男性是坚决承担男性责任，却依然感到悲愁的人。

75.The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.

76．人类的感情最特别的就是单恋，那是绝无仅有的。你绝不会看到一只猫，会偷偷地喜欢上另一只猫。

76. The most special feeling of human is the blind love. That's the unique. You would never see a cat loving another cat in secret.

77．只有很少的人才懂得，人生是因为缺憾而美丽，而所谓的回头，只不过是丢掉了白天的太阳之后，又错过了夜晚的星星。

77. Only few people know that life is beautiful for lacking something. The so-called turning-around is that you not only miss the sun in day time but also the stars at night.

78．所谓情话，就是你说了一些连自己都不相信的话，却希望对方相信。

78.The so-called love word is that you say something that you would not believe by yourself, but you hope others would believe.

79．有吃的东西，有睡觉的地方，有所爱的人，便是幸福。幸福是荒废的灵魂遇到爱的邂逅。

79. Happiness is that you have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love.

80．如果人生最坏的只是死亡，生活中怎会有面对不了的困难。

80. If the worst thing in the world is to die, then what kind of difficulty we can not overcome?

81．每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。

81.When every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.

82．不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

82.To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.

83．宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。

83.To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.

84．人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。

84. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.

85．事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。

85. The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.

86．不要期待完美的男人，不是因为你期待不到，而是根本没有完美的男人。

86.Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.

87．在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。

87.In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.

88.偶尔要回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。

88.Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.

89．如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。

89.If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything.

90．我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

90.I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.

91．你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。

91.U r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more.

92．无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。

92. No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life.

93．我一直相信，在这世界上存在着一个地方，一个让现实抓不到你的地方。在那里，梦想离你很近，很近，就像我相信，在城市里来往的人群中，总有一个，会让你记得一辈子。直到你咽下最后一口气。你一眼就认出她。我时常做同一个梦，在梦里，我总是不停地跑，不停地寻找。他们说要到那个地方，要找到那个人，你必须比别人多一点勇气，多一些幸运。你可能会付出冒险的代价。你可能会死在半途上。你敢不敢去？有一个地方，你去了就不想离开，有一种人，你一辈子只会遇见一次。

93. I always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. There, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. You can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare you to go? There is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life.

94．一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

94. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。

Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it.

95．如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。

95. If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Because you use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side.

96．生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。

96.The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats.

97．这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。

97.The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart.

98．自由不是让你想做什么就做么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。

98.Freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do.

99．我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。

99. I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.

100．曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

100. Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

101．我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。

101. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

1.希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，即使被切断，但它们还会再长出来。

1.Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.

2.宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。

2.To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.

3.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

3. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

4.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

4. Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

5.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。

5. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

6.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

6.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

7.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。

7.Love makes man grow up or sink down.

8.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

8. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

9.许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。

9.Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken.

10．我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

10. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

11．一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

11. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

12．人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。

12.During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.

13．生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。

13. To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?

14．你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。

14.Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness.

15．我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。

15. I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others.

16．爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。

16.If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness.

17．你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。

17.The more you want to know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget.

18．暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。

18.To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly.

19．女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。

19.The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls.

20．只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！

20. I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance.

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。

21. I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you.

22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。

22. When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you.

23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。

23. How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises.

24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

24. When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

25. What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.

26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。

26. People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love.

27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟

27. The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread.

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

28. Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future.

29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。

29. Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing.

30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。

30. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。

31. When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself.

32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。

32. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally.

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫做恋爱。

33. The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other.

34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。

34. The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers.

35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

35. When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you.

36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。

36. The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside.

37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。

37.We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father.

38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

38.If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。

39.It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability.

40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。

40. Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone.

41．在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？

41. It’s not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had.

42．如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。

42.If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily for the sake of scenery not for you.

43．千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。

43. Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash.

44．我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。

44. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.

45．当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。

45. When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time.

46．我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。

46.I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind.

47．所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。

47. All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me.

48．曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。

48. Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then your love will last longer.

49．我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。

49.I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story.

50．幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。

50. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.

51．在我们生命中出现的人，一些给我们上课，一些让我们痊愈，有的用来分担分享，有的用来真爱。

51.Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love.

52．与其等到别人来爱你，不如自己学着努力多爱自己一些，如果今天的你没有比昨天更喜欢自己，那明天对你来说又有什么意义呢？

52. It’s better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today you don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow?

53．你可以用自己不喜欢的方式赚到财富，也可以用自己不相信的药治好疾病，但你无法从自己不爱的人身上获得幸福。

53.You can make fortune by ways that you don't like, and can get cured by medicine that you don't believe, but you can never feel happy from someone you don't love.

54．有一个人让我觉得很安心，所以想要依靠他，而另一个人让我觉得很孤单，所以想要拥抱他。

54.Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.

55．一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。

55. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

56．所谓的自由，就是自己活着的理由，如果轻易放弃生命，那么在哪里都找不到自由的。

56. The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If you easily give up life, then you can never find freedom.

57．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

57.When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.

58．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。

58. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

59．一个有着优美背影的女人的最佳动作是背身离去——回忆就是这样一种女人。

59. The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.

60．在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。

60.In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.

61．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

61.If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.

62．有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道 ，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。

62. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.

63．我总是，追赶，那些黑色的潮水断处的山崖，却忘记了命轮里，一季一季俏俏开放，又悄悄枯萎的，没有来路的葵花。

63.I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.

64．爱情不是存在于我住的地方，而是存在于我爱的地方。爱情是用全世界所有的名言都无法解释的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙却不能了解女人，因为男人缺乏那种脑细胞。

64. Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.

65．人们说，找到了什么样的人就有了什么样的生活，于是不同的选择，就有不同的童话结尾。

65 It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.

66．在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。

66. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

67．我知道感情不能拿来比较，但无意中还是习惯用他拥有的来抱怨他所缺少的。

67. I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.

68．每个女孩都曾经是一个无泪的天使，当她遇上心爱的男孩时便有了泪，天使落泪，坠落凡间，所以每一个男孩都不能辜负他的女孩，因为她曾经为了你，放弃了整个天堂。

68. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy.

69．暗恋是不需要对象的，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正在爱着别人。

69. You don't need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we are falling love with someone.

70．不是我们去选择际遇，而是际遇选择我们。当际遇来到，我们能够做的，只是接受这个挑战。不要说机会从来没有出现，它曾经出现过，只是你舍不得放下自己拥有的东西。

70. It's not us to choose the opportunity, but it's opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don't say that opportunities never come. It came but you just don't willing to give up the things you own.

71．男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

71. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

72．温暖是奢侈的东西，奢侈到需要用很深的寒冷和疼痛才能体现。

72.Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt.

73．好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

73.Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

74．真爱，不是因为你能带给我什么而爱你，而是因为爱你而准备接受你所带来的一切。真爱就是不指望你让我能在人前夸耀，但在我的内心深处有这样的把握：即使所有的人不与我为伍，你也会依然站在我身边。

74. I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side.

75．真正的女性是毅然抛弃所谓女性气质，却依然美丽的人；真正的男性是坚决承担男性责任，却依然感到悲愁的人。

75.The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.

76．人类的感情最特别的就是单恋，那是绝无仅有的。你绝不会看到一只猫，会偷偷地喜欢上另一只猫。

76. The most special feeling of human is the blind love. That's the unique. You would never see a cat loving another cat in secret.

77．只有很少的人才懂得，人生是因为缺憾而美丽，而所谓的回头，只不过是丢掉了白天的太阳之后，又错过了夜晚的星星。

77. Only few people know that life is beautiful for lacking something. The so-called turning-around is that you not only miss the sun in day time but also the stars at night.

78．所谓情话，就是你说了一些连自己都不相信的话，却希望对方相信。

78.The so-called love word is that you say something that you would not believe by yourself, but you hope others would believe.

79．有吃的东西，有睡觉的地方，有所爱的人，便是幸福。幸福是荒废的灵魂遇到爱的邂逅。

79. Happiness is that you have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love.

80．如果人生最坏的只是死亡，生活中怎会有面对不了的困难。

80. If the worst thing in the world is to die, then what kind of difficulty we can not overcome?

81．每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。

81.When every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.

82．不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

82.To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.

83．宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。

83.To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.

84．人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。

84. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.

85．事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。

85. The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.

86．不要期待完美的男人，不是因为你期待不到，而是根本没有完美的男人。

86.Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.

87．在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。

87.In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.

88.偶尔要回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。

88.Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.

89．如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。

89.If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything.

90．我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

90.I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.

91．你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。

91.U r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more.

92．无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。

92. No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life.

93．我一直相信，在这世界上存在着一个地方，一个让现实抓不到你的地方。在那里，梦想离你很近，很近，就像我相信，在城市里来往的人群中，总有一个，会让你记得一辈子。直到你咽下最后一口气。你一眼就认出她。我时常做同一个梦，在梦里，我总是不停地跑，不停地寻找。他们说要到那个地方，要找到那个人，你必须比别人多一点勇气，多一些幸运。你可能会付出冒险的代价。你可能会死在半途上。你敢不敢去？有一个地方，你去了就不想离开，有一种人，你一辈子只会遇见一次。

93. I always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. There, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. You can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare you to go? There is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life.

94．一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

94. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。

Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it.

95．如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。

95. If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Because you use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side.

96．生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。

96.The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats.

97．这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。

97.The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart.

98．自由不是让你想做什么就做么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。

98.Freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do.

99．我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。

99. I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.

100．曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

100. Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

101．我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。

101. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

1.希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，即使被切断，但它们还会再长出来。

1.Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.

2.宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。

2.To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.

3.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

3. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

4.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

4. Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

5.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。

5. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

6.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

6.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

7.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。

7.Love makes man grow up or sink down.

8.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

8. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

9.许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。

9.Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken.

10．我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

10. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

11．一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

11. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

12．人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。

12.During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.

13．生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。

13. To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?

14．你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。

14.Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness.

15．我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。

15. I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others.

16．爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。

16.If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness.

17．你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。

17.The more you want to know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget.

18．暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。

18.To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly.

19．女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。

19.The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls.

20．只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！

20. I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance.

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。

21. I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you.

22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。

22. When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you.

23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。

23. How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises.

24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

24. When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

25. What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.

26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。

26. People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love.

27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟

27. The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread.

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

28. Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future.

29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。

29. Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing.

30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。

30. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。

31. When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself.

32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。

32. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally.

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫做恋爱。

33. The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other.

34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。

34. The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers.

35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

35. When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you.

36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。

36. The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside.

37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。

37.We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father.

38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

38.If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。

39.It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability.

40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。

40. Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone.

41．在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？

41. It’s not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had.

42．如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。

42.If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily for the sake of scenery not for you.

43．千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。

43. Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash.

44．我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。

44. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.

45．当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。

45. When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time.

46．我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。

46.I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind.

47．所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。

47. All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me.

48．曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。

48. Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then your love will last longer.

49．我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。

49.I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story.

50．幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。

50. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.

51．在我们生命中出现的人，一些给我们上课，一些让我们痊愈，有的用来分担分享，有的用来真爱。

51.Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love.

52．与其等到别人来爱你，不如自己学着努力多爱自己一些，如果今天的你没有比昨天更喜欢自己，那明天对你来说又有什么意义呢？

52. It’s better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today you don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow?

53．你可以用自己不喜欢的方式赚到财富，也可以用自己不相信的药治好疾病，但你无法从自己不爱的人身上获得幸福。

53.You can make fortune by ways that you don't like, and can get cured by medicine that you don't believe, but you can never feel happy from someone you don't love.

54．有一个人让我觉得很安心，所以想要依靠他，而另一个人让我觉得很孤单，所以想要拥抱他。

54.Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.

55．一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。

55. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

56．所谓的自由，就是自己活着的理由，如果轻易放弃生命，那么在哪里都找不到自由的。

56. The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If you easily give up life, then you can never find freedom.

57．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

57.When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.

58．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。

58. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

59．一个有着优美背影的女人的最佳动作是背身离去——回忆就是这样一种女人。

59. The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.

60．在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。

60.In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.

61．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

61.If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.

62．有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道 ，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。

62. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.

63．我总是，追赶，那些黑色的潮水断处的山崖，却忘记了命轮里，一季一季俏俏开放，又悄悄枯萎的，没有来路的葵花。

63.I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.

64．爱情不是存在于我住的地方，而是存在于我爱的地方。爱情是用全世界所有的名言都无法解释的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙却不能了解女人，因为男人缺乏那种脑细胞。

64. Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.

65．人们说，找到了什么样的人就有了什么样的生活，于是不同的选择，就有不同的童话结尾。

65 It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.

66．在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。

66. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

67．我知道感情不能拿来比较，但无意中还是习惯用他拥有的来抱怨他所缺少的。

67. I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.

68．每个女孩都曾经是一个无泪的天使，当她遇上心爱的男孩时便有了泪，天使落泪，坠落凡间，所以每一个男孩都不能辜负他的女孩，因为她曾经为了你，放弃了整个天堂。

68. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy.

69．暗恋是不需要对象的，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正在爱着别人。

69. You don't need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we are falling love with someone.

70．不是我们去选择际遇，而是际遇选择我们。当际遇来到，我们能够做的，只是接受这个挑战。不要说机会从来没有出现，它曾经出现过，只是你舍不得放下自己拥有的东西。

70. It's not us to choose the opportunity, but it's opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don't say that opportunities never come. It came but you just don't willing to give up the things you own.

71．男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

71. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

72．温暖是奢侈的东西，奢侈到需要用很深的寒冷和疼痛才能体现。

72.Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt.

73．好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

73.Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

74．真爱，不是因为你能带给我什么而爱你，而是因为爱你而准备接受你所带来的一切。真爱就是不指望你让我能在人前夸耀，但在我的内心深处有这样的把握：即使所有的人不与我为伍，你也会依然站在我身边。

74. I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side.

75．真正的女性是毅然抛弃所谓女性气质，却依然美丽的人；真正的男性是坚决承担男性责任，却依然感到悲愁的人。

75.The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.

76．人类的感情最特别的就是单恋，那是绝无仅有的。你绝不会看到一只猫，会偷偷地喜欢上另一只猫。

76. The most special feeling of human is the blind love. That's the unique. You would never see a cat loving another cat in secret.

77．只有很少的人才懂得，人生是因为缺憾而美丽，而所谓的回头，只不过是丢掉了白天的太阳之后，又错过了夜晚的星星。

77. Only few people know that life is beautiful for lacking something. The so-called turning-around is that you not only miss the sun in day time but also the stars at night.

78．所谓情话，就是你说了一些连自己都不相信的话，却希望对方相信。

78.The so-called love word is that you say something that you would not believe by yourself, but you hope others would believe.

79．有吃的东西，有睡觉的地方，有所爱的人，便是幸福。幸福是荒废的灵魂遇到爱的邂逅。

79. Happiness is that you have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love.

80．如果人生最坏的只是死亡，生活中怎会有面对不了的困难。

80. If the worst thing in the world is to die, then what kind of difficulty we can not overcome?

81．每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。

81.When every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.

82．不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

82.To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.

83．宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。

83.To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.

84．人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。

84. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.

85．事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。

85. The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.

86．不要期待完美的男人，不是因为你期待不到，而是根本没有完美的男人。

86.Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.

87．在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。

87.In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.

88.偶尔要回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。

88.Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.

89．如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。

89.If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything.

90．我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

90.I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.

91．你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。

91.U r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more.

92．无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。

92. No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life.

93．我一直相信，在这世界上存在着一个地方，一个让现实抓不到你的地方。在那里，梦想离你很近，很近，就像我相信，在城市里来往的人群中，总有一个，会让你记得一辈子。直到你咽下最后一口气。你一眼就认出她。我时常做同一个梦，在梦里，我总是不停地跑，不停地寻找。他们说要到那个地方，要找到那个人，你必须比别人多一点勇气，多一些幸运。你可能会付出冒险的代价。你可能会死在半途上。你敢不敢去？有一个地方，你去了就不想离开，有一种人，你一辈子只会遇见一次。

93. I always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. There, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. You can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare you to go? There is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life.

94．一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

94. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。

Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it.

95．如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。

95. If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Because you use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side.

96．生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。

96.The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats.

97．这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。

97.The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart.

98．自由不是让你想做什么就做么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。

98.Freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do.

99．我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。

99. I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.

100．曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

100. Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

101．我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。

101. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

1.希望和信任是蜥蜴的尾巴，即使被切断，但它们还会再长出来。

1.Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.

2.宁可失败在你喜欢的事情上，也不要成功在你所憎恶的事情上。

2.To lost in something you love is better than to win in something you hate.

3.一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

3. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.

4.幸福，不是长生不老，不是大鱼大肉，不是权倾朝野。幸福是每一个微小的生活愿望达成。当你想吃的时候有得吃，想被爱的时候有人来爱你。

4. Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.

5.爱情是灯，友情是影子，当灯灭了，你会发现你的周围都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以给你力量的人。

5. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.

6.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。

6.I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.

7.爱情，要么让人成熟，要么让人堕落。

7.Love makes man grow up or sink down.

8.举得起放得下的叫举重，举得起放不下的叫负重。可惜，大多数人的爱情，都是负重的。

8. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.

9.许多人向往水晶般的爱情——晶莹剔透没有一点瑕疵。更多人拥有的却是玻璃般的爱情——同样透明但容易破碎。

9.Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken.

10．我们每个人都生活在各自的过去中，人们会用一分钟的时间去认识一个人，用一小时的时间去喜欢一个人，再用一天的时间去爱上一个人，到最后呢，却要用一辈子的时间去忘记一个人。

10. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.

11．一个人一生可以爱上很多的人，等你获得真正属于你的幸福之后，你就会明白一起的伤痛其实是一种财富，它让你学会更好地去把握和珍惜你爱的人。

11. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.

12．人的一生，有两种遗憾最折磨人：一是得不到你心爱的人；二是心爱的人得不到幸福。

12.During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy.

13．生活在没有的你的世界，比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦，你知道吗，对我而言，你是任何人都无法取代的。

13. To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?

14．你的诞生带给我希望，而我希望带给你幸福。

14.Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness.

15．我将暴风般的爱情藏在心底，那是为了不给对方任何心理压力，我的爱情越是珍贵，相对地，也越珍惜别人的爱情。

15. I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others.

16．爱一个女孩子，与其为了她的幸福而放弃她，不如留住她，为她的幸福而努力。

16.If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness.

17．你越想知道自己是不是忘记的时候，你反而记得越清楚，我曾经听人说过，当你不能再拥有的时候，唯一可以做的就是令自己不要忘记。

17.The more you want to know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget.

18．暗恋一个人的心情，就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子，永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的，但却真心而倔强的等待着。

18.To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly.

19．女性在所有礼物中，认为花朵最有价值的原因：是因为男性在送花给女性的时候必须克服那种把花拿在手上走在街道上的羞涩感觉。

19.The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls.

20．只有跟你在一起的时候我才是活着的，我一个人的时候，就连最耀眼的太阳也失去光彩！

20. I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance.

21．不是不让你知道我的存在，只是不奢求爱情会降临到我头上，有时候想，我们是不同水域的动物，虽然我很艳羡你那个世界的美丽，但是浅水区的我一走近，就会被深水淹死。

21. I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you.

22．当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人罢了。

22. When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you.

23．被自己所爱的人深爱着是什么样的感觉呢？会是什么样子呢？想要立刻回答的人，你要知道自己是多么幸福的人。虽然一直强辩说，单恋也是一种爱情，但单用一边的手掌是拍不出声音的。

23. How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises.

24．年轻的时候会想要谈很多次恋爱，但是随着年龄的增长，终于领悟到爱一个人，就算用一辈子的时间，还是会嫌不够。慢慢地去了解这个人，体谅这个人，直到爱上为止，是需要有非常宽大的胸襟才行。

24. When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.

25．什么是爱情的完成呢？如果结婚才是爱的完成的话，那离婚又算什么呢？当我开始爱一个人的时候就是爱的完成。

25. What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love.

26．人原本就是在星星上出生的，暂时居住在这颗叫做地球的星星上，因此，任何一个人，都是具有星星般美好的心灵，生命尽管有限，依然不断用微笑和爱向他人散发光芒。

26. People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love.

27．原来爱情的世界很大，大到可以装下一百种委屈；原来爱情的世界很小，小到三个人就挤到窒息；原来爱情的世界很大，塞了多少幸福还是有空隙；原来爱情的世界很小，被一脚踩过就变成废墟

27. The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread.

28．爱，有何必多问？问得太多，只怕就不爱了。成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。

28. Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future.

29．你以为最酸的感觉是吃醋吗？不是的，最酸溜溜的感觉是没权吃醋，根本就轮不到你吃醋，那才是最酸最酸的。

29. Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing.

30．当明天变成了今天成为了昨天，最后成为记忆里不再重要的某一天，我们突然发现自己在不知不觉中已被时间推着向前走，这不是静止火车里，与相邻列车交错时，仿佛自己在前进的错觉，而是我们真实的在成长，在这件事里成了另一个自己。

30. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.

31．两人相爱是，渴求无限甜蜜的吻。但为何在争吵时，却要用接吻的嘴互相伤害呢？每当我忧郁困惑，疲惫不堪时，我只能给自己一个吻。

31. When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself.

32．缘分不是人海中两个人的擦身，缘分是不可能的相遇。比如我是空中的鸟，你是林中的豹，只是我们碰巧相爱。

32. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally.

33．自己爱的人同时也爱着自己，这简直是一种奇迹，神明为这种奇迹取了一个名字，叫做恋爱。

33. The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other.

34．人生并非都是选择题或是是非题，大部分是应用题，要我们一点一滴的论证，取舍的过程，做错了也没关系。

34. The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers.

35．当你的心真的在痛，眼泪快要流下来的时候，那就赶快抬头看看，这片曾经属于我们的天空；当天依旧是那么的广阔，云依旧那么的潇洒，那就不应该哭，因为我的离去，并没有带走你的世界。

35. When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you.

36．女人心是只盛水的玻璃瓶，明明已经装的满满的，却又好像什么都没有。

36. The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside.

37．我们总是要求男人有孩子一样的眼神，但要有父亲一样的能力。

37.We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father.

38．离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。

38.If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.

39．并不是因为安定了，所以想要结婚，就是无法与某人安定下去了，所以才要结婚。

39.It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability.

40．寂寞确实跟孤单不一样，孤单只表示身边没有别人，但寂寞是一种你无法将感受跟别人沟通或分享的心理状态。而真正的寂寞应该是连自己都忘了喜欢一个人的感觉。

40. Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone.

41．在友情的盆栽中培养爱情不是件容易的事，但是在长出爱情的盆栽里培养友情是件更困难的事。如果掏空了我心中的土，是否能培养出过去那种友呢？

41. It’s not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had.

42．如果花开了，就喜欢；如果花落了，就放弃。陪你在路上满心欢喜是因为风景，不是因为你。

42.If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily for the sake of scenery not for you.

43．千万别交一个无法替代的情人，否则你就会成为那个可以替代的情人。情人之间的自由就如同过期的支票，你可以继续拥有，但却无法兑现。

43. Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash.

44．我知道这世上有人在等我，但我不知道我在等谁，为了这个，我每天都非常快乐。

44. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.

45．当我们满怀喜悦和惆怅的成长已经成为一种可以被讲述的故事时，我们发现我们从未遵守过任何一个诺言，但我们真的真心真意相爱过。

45. When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time.

46．我安慰自己，虽然在最底最底的位置，看不到花儿绽放是的艳丽，然而却总不会错过花瓣飘落时在风中悠扬飞舞的浪漫。

46.I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind.

47．所有的爱情故事都有相同之处，在我生命的某一时刻我也经历过这些，然而我已记不得这些。我所记得的是，爱是以另一个男人的形式，带着新的希望，新的梦想重回我心中。

47. All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me.

48．曾经有机会目睹他最软弱最糟糕的时刻，你仍然能够微笑接受他的不完美，并且和他共同拥有这个秘密，这段爱情才能够长久一些。

48. Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then your love will last longer.

49．我相信了你编写的童话，自己就成了童话中幽蓝的花。

49.I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story.

50．幸福的关键不在与找到一个完美的人，而在找到任何一个人，然后和他一起努力建立一个完美的关系。

50. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him.

51．在我们生命中出现的人，一些给我们上课，一些让我们痊愈，有的用来分担分享，有的用来真爱。

51.Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love.

52．与其等到别人来爱你，不如自己学着努力多爱自己一些，如果今天的你没有比昨天更喜欢自己，那明天对你来说又有什么意义呢？

52. It’s better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today you don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow?

53．你可以用自己不喜欢的方式赚到财富，也可以用自己不相信的药治好疾病，但你无法从自己不爱的人身上获得幸福。

53.You can make fortune by ways that you don't like, and can get cured by medicine that you don't believe, but you can never feel happy from someone you don't love.

54．有一个人让我觉得很安心，所以想要依靠他，而另一个人让我觉得很孤单，所以想要拥抱他。

54.Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him.

55．一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。

55. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.

56．所谓的自由，就是自己活着的理由，如果轻易放弃生命，那么在哪里都找不到自由的。

56. The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If you easily give up life, then you can never find freedom.

57．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

57.When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him.

58．女人如果不性感，就要感性；如果没有感性，就要理性；如果没有理性，就要有自知之明；如果连这个都没有了，她只有不幸。

58. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.

59．一个有着优美背影的女人的最佳动作是背身离去——回忆就是这样一种女人。

59. The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory.

60．在这个世界上，只有真正快乐的男人，才能带给女人真正的快乐。

60.In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.

61．当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。

61.If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.

62．有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦？我们总以为那份痴情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我们才发现，它一直都是很轻，很轻的。我们以为爱的很深，很深，来日岁月，会让你知道 ，它不过很浅，很浅。最深和最重的爱，必须和时日一起成长。

62. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.

63．我总是，追赶，那些黑色的潮水断处的山崖，却忘记了命轮里，一季一季俏俏开放，又悄悄枯萎的，没有来路的葵花。

63.I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.

64．爱情不是存在于我住的地方，而是存在于我爱的地方。爱情是用全世界所有的名言都无法解释的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙却不能了解女人，因为男人缺乏那种脑细胞。

64. Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.

65．人们说，找到了什么样的人就有了什么样的生活，于是不同的选择，就有不同的童话结尾。

65 It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.

66．在自己面前，应该一直留有一个地方，独自留在那里。然后去爱。不知道是什么，不知道是谁，不知道如何去爱，也不知道可以爱多久。只是等待一次爱情，也许永远都没有人。可是，这种等待，就是爱情本身。

66. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.

67．我知道感情不能拿来比较，但无意中还是习惯用他拥有的来抱怨他所缺少的。

67. I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of.

68．每个女孩都曾经是一个无泪的天使，当她遇上心爱的男孩时便有了泪，天使落泪，坠落凡间，所以每一个男孩都不能辜负他的女孩，因为她曾经为了你，放弃了整个天堂。

68. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy.

69．暗恋是不需要对象的，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正在爱着别人。

69. You don't need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we are falling love with someone.

70．不是我们去选择际遇，而是际遇选择我们。当际遇来到，我们能够做的，只是接受这个挑战。不要说机会从来没有出现，它曾经出现过，只是你舍不得放下自己拥有的东西。

70. It's not us to choose the opportunity, but it's opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don't say that opportunities never come. It came but you just don't willing to give up the things you own.

71．男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。

71. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.

72．温暖是奢侈的东西，奢侈到需要用很深的寒冷和疼痛才能体现。

72.Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt.

73．好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。

73.Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.

74．真爱，不是因为你能带给我什么而爱你，而是因为爱你而准备接受你所带来的一切。真爱就是不指望你让我能在人前夸耀，但在我的内心深处有这样的把握：即使所有的人不与我为伍，你也会依然站在我身边。

74. I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side.

75．真正的女性是毅然抛弃所谓女性气质，却依然美丽的人；真正的男性是坚决承担男性责任，却依然感到悲愁的人。

75.The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.

76．人类的感情最特别的就是单恋，那是绝无仅有的。你绝不会看到一只猫，会偷偷地喜欢上另一只猫。

76. The most special feeling of human is the blind love. That's the unique. You would never see a cat loving another cat in secret.

77．只有很少的人才懂得，人生是因为缺憾而美丽，而所谓的回头，只不过是丢掉了白天的太阳之后，又错过了夜晚的星星。

77. Only few people know that life is beautiful for lacking something. The so-called turning-around is that you not only miss the sun in day time but also the stars at night.

78．所谓情话，就是你说了一些连自己都不相信的话，却希望对方相信。

78.The so-called love word is that you say something that you would not believe by yourself, but you hope others would believe.

79．有吃的东西，有睡觉的地方，有所爱的人，便是幸福。幸福是荒废的灵魂遇到爱的邂逅。

79. Happiness is that you have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love.

80．如果人生最坏的只是死亡，生活中怎会有面对不了的困难。

80. If the worst thing in the world is to die, then what kind of difficulty we can not overcome?

81．每段爱情在走向终结时，倒带回去，一路上或花草鲜美，或落英缤纷，而最初总是倾心的。

81.When every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful.

82．不是把对方留在自己身边才叫爱，能放手让所爱的人离开，也是爱的一种。

82.To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely.

83．宽恕，原谅并不代表忘记，也不代表赦免，而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系，而是有没有住在你的心里。

83.To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.

84．人都是会改变的，有些人选择改变环境，有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候，我只好选择，在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。

84. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.

85．事实上，这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘，有人却坚持。

85. The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.

86．不要期待完美的男人，不是因为你期待不到，而是根本没有完美的男人。

86.Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.

87．在这世界上无所谓偶然，只是伪装成偶然的必然。

87.In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.

88.偶尔要回头看看，否则永远都在追寻，而不知道自己失去了什么。

88.Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.

89．如果你爱一个人，你会了解她的一切，而不需要问她；如果你不爱一个人，即使她告诉你她的一切，你也还是会忘记的。

89.If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything.

90．我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。

90.I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man.

91．你是幸运的，因为你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你还是更爱你。

91.U r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more.

92．无论命运以怎样残忍的方式赐予一个人以磨难和不幸，但仍会相应地赐予他幸福与甜蜜，即使这幸福是如此短暂与不真实，也足以照亮他今后整个暗淡的人生。

92. No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life.

93．我一直相信，在这世界上存在着一个地方，一个让现实抓不到你的地方。在那里，梦想离你很近，很近，就像我相信，在城市里来往的人群中，总有一个，会让你记得一辈子。直到你咽下最后一口气。你一眼就认出她。我时常做同一个梦，在梦里，我总是不停地跑，不停地寻找。他们说要到那个地方，要找到那个人，你必须比别人多一点勇气，多一些幸运。你可能会付出冒险的代价。你可能会死在半途上。你敢不敢去？有一个地方，你去了就不想离开，有一种人，你一辈子只会遇见一次。

93. I always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. There, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. You can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare you to go? There is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life.

94．一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。

94. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

钟情，相思，暗恋，渴慕，等待，失望，试探，患得患失，痛不欲生，天涯永隔，追忆似水流年……种种这些，都曾因你而经历，也就誓不言悔。

Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it.

95．如果不是你，我现在肯定只能在绝望和恐惧中颤抖，发出痛苦的呻吟。但是因为有了你，我，每天都可以梦想最美丽的离别。因为你拿整个生命来爱我，所以我的心获得了自由。我的生命正在慢慢地离开我，好象沙子从沙漏中流走一样，我听到了那流逝的声音，但只要你还熟睡在我身旁，我就依然笑得出来。

95. If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Because you use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side.

96．生命最大的恐惧，不过是来自于心底那个不去发现的黑暗，但是灵魂告诉我们，只要还有心跳，就一定有勇气。

96.The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats.

97．这个世界最易碎的就是男人的酒杯，政客的承诺，少女的梦想，钢丝上的爱情，现代社会的善良和高贵的心。

97.The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart.

98．自由不是让你想做什么就做么，自由是教你不想做什么，就可以不做什么。

98.Freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do.

99．我以为呵出一口气，能化作晴天的云，没想到竟在眼角凝结成雨滴。在这个寒冷的冬夜里，爱情像一种奢侈品，让相爱的人更幸福，让落单的人禁不起。

99. I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier.

100．曾经拥有的，不要忘记。不能得到的，更要珍惜。属于自己的，不要放弃。已经失去的，留作回忆。

100. Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.

101．我喜欢并习惯了对变化的东西保持着距离，这样才会知道什么是最不会被时间抛弃的准则。比如爱一个人，充满变数，我于是后退一步，静静的看着，直到看见真诚的感情。

101. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.

友情的杯子~

貓~

  生活着，每天都对着镜子，把自己整理得纤尘不染，然后把一副微微笑的面孔去从容的面对形形色色的人，不敢有丝毫的懈怠。

　　追求着，向着一些遥不可及的目标，每天拔涉奋进，为了给自己一个生存的理由。

　　爱和被爱着,不经意间，伤害了别人的感情也被别人的感情伤害，不敢再轻言爱情。

　　就这样活着。自己也不能懂得自己，自己也不能明白自己。有时，就觉得自己很难理解，就会有一种茫然的、厌倦的感觉。

　　就不快乐。

　　有天，上班的途中经过一个施工的工地，就在那暖洋洋的中午的阳光下，一群打工的力工，穿着破烂烂的衣服，就那么随随便便的，面对兰天躺在沙堆上，睡着的和没有睡着的，单纯的笑容是发自心灵深处的那种，明亮而璀璨。突然间就被那快乐所感染。

　　再看看那些人， 他们活着，他们没有时间去多愁善感，他们爱着，他们却不懂怎么诠释爱情，他们满足着,因为他们没有奢望生活过多的给予，他们简单着，他们不用在人前掩饰什么。

　　他们也许连幸福是什么都不知道，然而真正快乐的却就是这么一群简单的人。

　　明白了：之所以不快乐，就是因为不能够活得单纯；其实，不要去放刻意追求什么，不要向生命去索取什么，

　　In the severe cold of winter, her heart is filled with warmth. Lovers see everything through the perspectives of love.

 

　　倘若失恋，多好的春天，也会黯淡无光.

　　When out of love, the most pleasant spring will lose its luster.

 

 

　　Mossy green envelops her in the early spring, crispy and soft. A less careful caress may make it crinkle or crack.

 

 

　　When summer arrives, she becomes boats in the sea. Some go down, and some stay on top

 

 

　　秋天的时候，她不仅爱得炽热，也爱得日趋成熟...

　　In autumn, her love is fervent, and becoming mature...

珍惜身边给你幸福的人！

A Friend....朋友就是...

(A)ccepts you as you are接受原本的你

(B)elieves in "you"相信你这个人

(C)alls you just to say "HI" 打电话给你,就是想说声: 嗨!

(D)oesn't give up on you从不放弃对你的信心

(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)预期你总是尽全力 (即使有未达成的部份)

(F)orgives your mistakes原谅你的过错

(G)ives unconditionally无条件地给予

(H)elps you帮助你

(I)nvites you over邀请你

(J)ust "be" with you静静地在你身旁

(K)eeps you close at heart靠近你的心

(L)oves you for who you are 因你原来的样子而爱你

(M)akes a difference in your life使你的生活与以往不同

(N)ever Judges不论断

(O)ffers support支持你

(P)icks you up扶你一把

(Q)uiets your fears使你无所畏惧

(R)aises your spirits鼓舞你的心灵

(S)ays nice things about you跟别人述说你好的那一面

(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it.当需要时,会告诉你实情

(U)nderstands you懂你

(V)alues you看重你

(W)alks beside you与你同行

(X)-plain things you don't understand解你的惑

(Y)ells when you won't listen在你听不下时,会大吼你一下

(Z)aps you back to reality把你拉回现实

 

 

有人说暗恋虽然有痛楚，但它是那么的纯洁，只因喜欢而喜欢，缺少了现实的污染，往往是感情最美好的时刻。 

 

原来忘记比记住更难。

 

爱与痛好像总是分不开的，如果你不爱他那你就不会感到痛苦，痛并快乐着，多么矛盾的心情。

 

这也是为什么大家都不愿意长大的原因吧，简单的生活才是最开心的。

 

原来有些事情是没办法习惯的，20多年过去了离别依然是我无法习惯的场景，即使它背后代表着重逢。

 

      女人，要相信温暖，美好，信任，尊严，坚强这些老掉牙的字眼。不要颓废，空虚，迷茫，糟践自己，伤害别人。不要认同那些伪装的酷和另类。他们是无事可做的人找出来放任自己无事可做的借口。真正的酷是在内心。你要有强大的内心。要有任凭时间流逝，不会磨折和屈服的信念。 

      要好好去爱，去生活。青春如此短暂，不要叹老。要时不时问问自己，自己在干吗。伤心和委屈的时候，要嚎啕大哭。哭完洗完脸，拍拍自己的脸，挤出一个微笑给自己看。不要揉，否则第二天早上会眼睛肿。 

     给自己一个远大的前程和目标。记得常常仰望天空。记住仰望天空的时候也看看脚下。任何时候，任何人问你，有过多少次恋爱，答案是两次。一次是他爱我，我不爱他。一次是我爱他，他不爱我。好的爱情永远在下一次。   

　别给同一个男人两次伤害你的机会。 

别把犯贱当真爱。一个男人作践自己来取悦你的时候，千万不要因此感动。这个烟头烫在他身上，下一个就可能烫在你身上。看看一个男人的朋友们是什么样的，注意他的朋友们对待女人的态度。还有，千万别相信一个不准备将你介绍给他的朋友圈子的男人。不要相信在恋爱上用手段的人。分手时不要口出恶言。吸取教训，但不要后悔。后悔没有用。 

     别干撕照片，烧信，撕日记这样一类三流爱情电视剧中才有人干的事。相信爱情。相信好男人还存在，还未婚，还在茫茫人海中寻觅你。别说“男人没一个好东西”这样使别人误以为你阅人无数的话。 

     要保护自己，千万记住。对某些人来说，你不必珍惜，但对家人来说，你是珍贵的。请你知道，宝贝，伤心的时候，要回家，要给我打电话，要跟周围人说，不要闷在心里。要知道你不缺乏爱，有我们在。 

          照镜子的时候，一定要微笑，跟自己说，我很可爱。要运动，要健康，不懒惰，不吸烟。不要晚睡晚起。爱物质，适当地。永远知道精神更重要。比那些名表，名牌，时装，更加美丽的是你自己。 

       顺父母心意，但有自己的想法。不要盲从，任何事都问问自己到底怎么想。有想法要大声说出来。读哲学，科学，心理学，一些你以为枯燥的书。知道这世界的基本规则和常识。多听听好的音乐。看好的电影和画。爱心中的艺术，但不是艺术中的自己。 

       别瞧不起劳动人民。不要为劳动羞耻。土地不脏，汗味不难闻。请尊重那些似乎生活状况不如你的人，因为这样才是尊重自己。永远体恤那些生活在底层的人们。 

       不要小看一分钱。不妨自己去挣挣看。口袋里有钱的时候，别拒绝任何一个乞丐。我们不是施舍给乞丐，是施舍给比我们困难的人。那些伪装的乞丐，也在乞讨的时候，具备了乞丐的心情。给比拿快乐。 

      不管多么累，公车上要给老人和孕妇让座。被朋友伤害了的时候，别怀疑友情，但提防背叛你的人。原谅，但并不遗忘。 

       做人存几分天真童心，对朋友保持一些侠义之情。要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖。这和性格无关。 

These 10 habits of highly successful women are practical, easy, and effective — and they’re what “See Jane Soar” is all about! These tips for success range from maintaining your hormonal balance to letting go of the past - and they affect your mind, body, and soul.

Taking action is one of the most important habits of successful women…and so is dreaming. For inspiration and practical advice for succeeding in life after failure or knock-out punches, click on This is Not the Life I Ordered: 50 Ways to Keep Your Head Above Water When Life Keeps Dragging You Down by Deborah Collins Stephens et al.

10 Habits of Highly Successful Women

1. Maintain your hormonal balance. Are you moody, exhausted, irritable, or sad? Check your hormones. If they’re out of whack, then you’ll struggle to be successful! Make sure you’re getting enough protein and vitamins, and decrease your refined sugars and carbohydrates.

2. Forgive yourself for your mistakes. Highly successful women don’t obsess or feel guilty about past choices or failures. They make mistakes, move on, and apply what they’ve learned to new situations.   

3. Connect with who you are. Being a daughter, wife, or mother is one aspect of your life. It doesn’t define who you are as a woman. To connect with who you are, find and express your authentic self. The more authentic you are, the more appealing you’ll be to others - and to yourself!

4. Avoid energy vampires. Do you feel drained or sad after spending time with a particular friend, coworker, or relative? Limit the time you spend with him or her. Note how you feel after visiting with a certain person; if you feel energized and happy, then you’re in good company. Highly successful women choose their companions wisely.

5. Speak kindly to yourself! If you beat yourself up for being overweight, a “bad” mom, or not exercising enough, you just create a downward spiral. Highly successful women remind themselves of their achievements and successes. They refuse to tell themselves negative things; they accept themselves.

6. Listen to your body. I heard Oprah Winfrey say this about 10 years ago: listen to what your body is telling you. Are you emotionally hungry or physically hungry? Feed yourself properly. Are you sad, furious, or depressed? Follow your body’s cues.

7. Volunteer your time. Find something that takes you out of your comfort zone or that you love to do. You’ll feel great that you’re helping others out - and volunteering directly improves your physical health. Highly successful women step out of their comfort zones and takes risks.

8. Let go of perfectionism. Strive to do your best, but let go of perfectionist tendencies. Accepting that you’re doing the best you can is a habit of highly successful women. Letting go of perfectionism is vitamins and exercise for the soul!

9. Use your core strengths. Are you a natural mathematician, writer, or party planner? Discover your core strengths by trying different things until you find what fits. To take risks and try new things, take short-term volunteer positions or volunteer for new projects at work or in your community.

10. Take time for yourself. This habit for highly successful women is my favorite: take time to recharge your batteries and refuel your emotional, spiritual, and physical energy. Spend at least a few minutes alone each day - even if you have to lock yourself in the bathroom to do it!

成功女人的下列十个习惯实用，简单，有效 --- 也正是See Jane Soar网站的意义所在。这些成功小贴士从告诉你要保持激素平衡到教你放下过去，可运用于我们的意识、身体和灵魂。

成功女人的十大习惯

1.保持荷尔蒙平衡。你是否极度情绪化、精疲力尽、暴躁易怒？请检查你的激素水平。假如激素水品紊乱，你是很难成功的！要保证汲取足够的蛋白质和维生素，减少精制糖及碳水化合物的摄入。

2.原谅自己的错误。成功的女性不会为过去的选择、失败感到困扰或愧疚。他们犯错后继续前进，将经验教训运用到新的情景当中。

3.与真实的自己保持联系。为人女儿、妻子或母亲都只是你人生中的一个面向，这些角色无法界定作为一个女人：你是谁。找到并表达真实的自己，与真实的自己联结。你越真实，其他人越会被你吸引；你也会更加喜欢自己！

4.远离吸取你能量的吸血鬼。你是否会觉得在跟某个特定的朋友、同事或家人在一起时有种被抽干或是悲伤的感觉？限制跟他/她相处的时间。注意观察你在见过一个特定的人之后的感受：假如你感到精神鼓舞心情愉快，那说明对方是一个很好的伙伴。成功的女人会明智地选择自己的朋友。

5.对自己温柔地说话！假如你痛斥自己超重、是个糟糕的妈妈、运动锻炼得不够，你只是制造了一个情绪下沉的漩涡。成功的女人会时刻提醒自己的功绩和成就，她们不会向自己传递负面的东西：她们接受自己。

6.倾听自己的身体。十年前我就听到Oprah Winfrey说过：倾听你的身体在告诉你什么。你是情绪上感到饥饿还是生理上真的饥饿？要合理地进食。你是否感到悲伤、愤怒或沮丧？要关注身体的暗示。

7.奉献你的时间。找到一些把你带离舒适区域的事或你热爱去做的事。帮助别人会使你感觉很棒 －－ 而且志愿活动可以直接增进你的生理健康。成功的女人会走出自己的舒适区域并愿意承担风险。

8.放弃完美主义。努力做到最好，但是放弃成为一个完美主义者的倾向。接受自己正在全力投入的现状是成功女人的另一个习惯。放弃完美主义是精神上的维他命和运动锻炼。

9.运用你的核心特长。你是否是个天生的数学家？作家？或宴会组织者？尝试不同的事物，直到发现你的核心特长。承担风险，尝试新事物，参加一些短期志愿活动或在工作上社区里志愿承担一些新项目。

10.给自己留些时间。这是成功女人的习惯当中我最喜欢的一条：花时间为自己充电，补给自己的情绪、精神和身体能量。每天至少花上几分钟独处 －－ 即使你必须把自己锁在洗手间里来这样做也没关系。

1.God won't ask what kind of car you drove,He will ask how many people you drove who did not have transportation.

上帝不会问你开的是哪种车，他会问你搭载的人中，有多少是没有交通工具的.

 

2.God won't ask the square footage of your house,He'll ask how many people you welcomed into your home.

上帝不会问你的房子有多大，他会问你邀请过多少人来到你家里. 

 

3.God won't ask about the clothes you had in your closet,He'll ask how many you helped to clothe.

上帝不会问你衣柜里有多少衣服，他会问你曾帮助多少需要衣物的人.

 

4.God won't ask what your highest salary was,He'll ask if you compromised your characterto obtain it.

上帝不会问你收入有多丰富，他会问你是否为不义之财.

 

5.God won't ask what yout job title was,He'll ask if you preformed your job to the best of your ability.

上帝不会问你的职位，他会问你是否有充分发挥自己的才能.

6.God won't ask how many friends you had ,He'll ask how many people to whom you were a friend.

上帝不会问你有多少朋友，他会问你是多少人的朋友.

7.God won't ask in what neighborhood you lived,He'll ask how you treated your neighbors.

上帝不会问你住在哪个社区，他会问你是如何对待你的左邻右舍的.

8.God won't ask about the color of your skin ,He'll ask about the content of your character.

上帝不会问你的肤色，他会问你的人格特质.

9.God won't ask why it took you so long to seek Salvation .He'll lovingly take you to your mansion in heaven,and not to the gates of Hell.

上帝不会问你怎么会那么长的时间在寻找救恩，他是多么引颈期盼能将你引领到天上的家，而非地狱之门.

10.God won't have ask how many people you forward this to,He already knows your decision ,

上帝不需要问你会将这个信息传给多少人，你的心思他早已知晓.